Reconnect with eachother & feel happy again
Real, honest relationship support from a real couple. Janelle & Dan hold space for both of you to reconnect, repair, and move forward together.
Online marriage counselling & coaching sessions that bring you closer together and get you back on track
"so easy to work with"
- Reignite Connection
- Feel Seen & Heard
- Repair Intimacy & Affection
You're in the same house
but not on the same page...
We’ve been where you are and we have found a way forward together.
We’re not your average coaches. We’re a real couple who’ve lived through disconnection, conflict, and the quiet distance that creeps in when life gets heavy.
We’ve done the work — the late-night conversations, the hard truths, the slow repair — and we now help other couples do the same, with compassion, insight, humour and no-bullshit support.
Together, we bring a grounded mix of humour, spiritual insight, practical tools, and lived experience to help you reconnect in a way that feels honest, safe, and real.
This is the support you've been searching for.
(without the awkward counseller vibes)
We created Stay Married because we’ve been there too- feeling disconnected, misunderstood and wondering if you’re even speaking the same language anymore.
Through down-to-earth, practical and spirit led relationship coaching, we help couples reconnect, communicate better and rediscover what makes them a team. No judgement, no blame, just real support to help you find your way back to each other.
Why work with us?
Reignite Connection
Taking the plunge and attending a session with us is the first step in reigniting the connection between you again.
Feel Seen & Heard
Our sessions are a safe place to feel seen and heard, with a strong focus on fostering understanding, and finding solutions rather than placing blame.
Repair Intimacy & Affection
Implement our customised action plans that include practical exercises to sustain intimacy over time
Here's how it works...
1.
Choose what feels right
You can start with a one-off Intro Session $187 (normally $250) or go all the way in with a 1-month or 2-month Couples Coaching Package.
Each option is designed to help you reconnect, repair, and move forward — whether you’re feeling a little off-track or completely at a crossroads.
2.
Pick a time that works for you
Booking is simple — just choose a time that suits you both, and you’ll receive the Zoom link straight to your inbox.
3.
Show up as you are
No pressure, no awkwardness — it’s just like talking to old friends.
Janelle & Dan will meet you in the Zoom room, hold space for both of you, and gently guide you through whatever’s coming up.
You’ll leave feeling lighter, clearer, and more like a team again.
Book Online
You can book your first intro session below or book into one our packages to dive straight into to your best relationship era yet.
Our Personal journey
We met as teenagers and have been navigating life side by side for almost 25 years now.
We went from being childless and carefree…
to raising two neurodivergent, high-care-needs children, paying a mortgage and an inbox full of bills.
We’ve built new homes, chased big dreams, reassessed, downsized, and rebuilt — always following our hearts and our shifting priorities.
We’ve had seasons of financial abundance, running successful businesses — and seasons where there was no money at all.
We’ve swapped roles as breadwinners and caretakers more times than we can count. We’ve learned what it really means to hold each other through change.
Most recently, we’ve walked through one of our biggest challenges yet:
A harrowing mould journey that made our son incredibly unwell, forced us to gut and rebuild our home, and led to losing nearly all of our belongings.
It broke us open — but it didn’t break us apart.
We came through it more connected than ever before.
More honest. More present. More grounded in what really matters.
And now, we want to help you feel the same.
So easy to work with!
I can’t recommend Janelle and Dan enough.
So amazingly easy to work with from both or our perspectives.
They understood our lives having children with additional needs, and gave us practical tips and solutions to implement on busy days and choatic schedules to keep us connected and feeling a deep sense of togetherness.
N & S
Married 14 years
Feeling Great After One Session
We both really enjoyed last nights session! Definitely steps in the right direction and just taking it slow and trying to be kind to ourselves and each other as we adjust to new ways of communicating and loving one another.
We know it’s not linear and there will be ups and downs but we are both committed. Definitely be continuing the sessions as it’s so nice to you in the middle initiating and being able to call things out too.
S & C
Married 8 years
Made a Huge Difference
Our sessions with Janelle & Dan made a huge difference to how we communicate and even how we disagree on things.
We are both feeling more much connected, in tune and in love than ever before.
B & J
Married 12 years
Real Client Testimonials
Frequently Asked Questions
Will you take sides?
Nope.
Our job is to hold a safe, neutral space where both people feel heard, respected, and challenged in a healthy way. We’re here to support the relationship, not just one person in it.
It’s not about who’s right or wrong, is about moving forward in a way that feels good for both of you.
What's the difference between this and traditional marriage counselling?
We blend real-life experience with intuitive insight, emotional depth, and straight-talking honesty. We don’t spend months just talking in circles. We help you get to the heart of what’s going on—fast—and give you practical tools to shift
Do you only work with married couples?
No!!
The reason we chose the name “Stay Married” is because its clear and concise around what we offer – the tools and advice to help people stay together!
Is it too late for us?
If you’re asking this question, chances are there’s still something left to work with.
We’ve seen couples come back from deep disconnection, betrayal, and burnout—but it takes honesty, effort, and a willingness to do the work.
Do you work with same sex couples?
Absolutely. Love is love, and every relationship deserves to feel connected, respected, and supported. As long as there’s a willingness to grow together, you’re welcome here.
We've done therapy before, how is this different?
We don’t drag you through years of analysis or get lost in theory. We focus on what’s happening now, how to shift it, and how to build something that feels good for both of you. Our work blends lived experience, emotional insight, and real-world tools that stick.
Many people say “this has been more helpful than a session with my psychologist!”
